Fortunately, a lot of the time he is surrounded by school staff that are understanding and willing to work with him. Unfortunately, since there is little or no training for school staff on dyslexia, he sometimes runs into people that affect him negatively and they send his confidence spiraling to the floor. Having to deal with a teacher laughing at you in front of the whole class because you’re trying to advocate for yourself and explain one of your accommodations to them, is most certainly going to affect him negatively. While this particular teacher was later educated by the school on the accommodation written into his IEP because it wasn’t a “typical” accommodation, the damage is already done. If you know anything about IEPs then you see the issue with schools that don’t understand dyslexia let alone IEPs since there shouldn’t be any “typical” accommodations in an IEP, it’s supposed to fit the individual. Perhaps there are accommodations that schools are used to writing into IEPs, but that doesn’t make them more acceptable or “typical.”
Will he make it to graduation day? Will the stress of being misunderstood make him throw up his hands one day in frustration and walk out the school doors never to return? Will he drop-out? Those are the questions circling our house and family right now and we can only keep supporting and encouraging him to grab that diploma in 2017. He has to do the work. He has to endure the frustrations. He’s been strong for a long time. He has to want it and make it happen.
He’s taking photography this year in school because it's a passion of his. Here is his first photography project, a photogram project, that he was surprised and thrilled to find hanging in the career center hallway. We see his potential, will he?